Have you ever fallen in love with someone and thought for sure they were THE ONE for you?
All the signs pointed to YES.
People told you how perfectly matched you were.
It seemed like they checked all the boxes for everything you were looking for in a partner, and more.
You were so excited to be D-O-N-E with dating and to settle into this next phase of your life.
You started dreaming about your future together.
You relaxed into the certainty.
… And then it happened.
They said NO to your life together.
Avoiding Commitment
They suddenly weren’t willing to take the next step, to commit, to fully choose you.
Or they were too committed to their career, their addictions, their separate social life, or even philandering.
You were floored.
How could this beautiful opportunity crumble and leave you single, once again?
Then the disappointment set in, because not only were you letting go of your beloved, you had to let go of your dreams.
Your dreams of a wedding, a spouse, a family — a partner in crime — a lifetime of love and happiness.
Shattered.
Then came the regrets.
You felt like you wasted months or years of your life investing in the wrong thing.
You wondered if you could have done something differently, been better, looked better, or maybe you could have spotted the signs sooner and left before giving so much to them.
You were devastated.
And then you wondered how you were supposed to date again. Why bother??
The truth is that if you don’t know the real reason why things happened the way they did, you’re likely to get into the same situation again.
Time for some deep healing
If you don’t heal the core issue that had you choose and stay with a partner like this, you’ll probably pick another version of them again.
But if you set aside some time to deeply examine yourself and these past situations, and to heal your attachment style, you will be well on your way to having a different result — a healthy, lasting relationship.
This is what I teach — how and why to choose differently so you don’t have to have this happen all over again.
Over the last 13 years, I’ve helped hundreds of women and men find their way out of this pattern and sail right on by their old beliefs that they can’t have a happy and secure relationship with a partner they’re attracted to, and I can help you too.
If you want to get ready for true love to enter your life, here’s what I’ve got for you:
I've created a couple of Masterclasses — one specifically aimed at women, and one specifically for men — where we go into detail about the 5 Shifts to Stop Investing in Relationships with No Future and Find A Loving & Secure Relationship.
In under an hour, you'll walk away with advice you’ve likely never heard before in terms of how to recognize what’s happening in your love life and why, and actionable next steps for how to change it once and for all.
The Masterclass is perfect for you if you're truly committed to transforming your love life and you’re willing to do whatever it takes to turn it around. (This is not for you if you're just kinda curious and indifferent to whether or not you find your partner this year!)
We can’t wait to help you have a huge breakthrough in your love life!
