There’s a disturbing myth in the personal development and spiritual growth communities that women are supposed to be perfectly happy when we’re single. Our lives are supposed to be just as great when we’re single as they are when we have a partner, and we’re not...
Have you ever had the agonizing experience of obsessing about whether a guy or gal you really like is into you? If so, you know what it feels like to be anxious in love. It’s hard to focus on anything but your phone. Will they call? Will they text? Will they ask you...
If I had to boil my entire dating philosophy down to just two words, it would be: “Go slow.” Why? Because when you move too quickly, you miss the most important signals. … Signals that they’re not ready or available for a committed relationship. … Signals that they’re...
Picture this: You’re watching a popular romantic comedy. The main female character, let’s call her Jane, is head-over-heels in love with John, the main male character. John is gorgeous, successful, charismatic and slightly mysterious, and he loves to flirt with...
When I was younger and less wise, my choices in love were determined by the very things I now advise both women and men against. For example, I would choose men based on how excited I felt in their presence. In fact, the more excited I felt, both when I was with a...
In this episode, Maya breaks down the energy of an unavailable attraction – what it feels like, what it looks like, and why it occurs- over and over again. She shares about her personal experience with these kinds of attractions and offers questions that can...
If you've spent years in therapy — or if you're a therapist yourself — and your love life still doesn't look the way you'd like it to, this message is for you.While I value therapy and believe it's an effective tool (I WAS a licensed MFT), there are 3 main...
So … you went on a few really great dates and had a great connection. You were messaging every day, saying good morning and goodnight. You were starting to get really excited about this one. And suddenly, just like that, they went radio silent. You waited a few...
It sucks getting older and realizing that all your friends are partnered up. Being the only “single friend” at the wedding over and over again. Always feeling like a 3rd (or 5th) wheel with your couple friends. At a certain point, you start to look...
If you're successful in all areas of your life, but struggling in love, listen up! Maybe you've climbed the corporate ladder. Or you're a leader in your field. Or you're totally rockin' it as business owner, but your love life feels like a mystery (or even a mess … )...
