The ability to soothe your own heart is one of the most powerful skills a human can master.
Self-soothing is a difficult skill to master.
Why? Because we are wired for co-regulation.
It’s much faster to be soothed by another person: Someone who loves you, someone who can listen and see you and hear you.
Co-regulation is fantastic! But there is also a time and place and need for self-regulation.
Those moments when you need to calm yourself when you’re triggered.
Those moments when you wake up in the middle of the night, with challenging feelings and no one is there next to you.
That moment when you feel something so intensely and you need a loving and attuned presence.
Many, many moments… Self-regulation is key.
This is one of the most important skills I teach my clients.
No matter what partner you're with, this skill is instrumental to having a healthy, loving, and lasting relationship.
Are you called to cultivate this skill?
Your first step is to apply for a complimentary Love Breakthrough phone session to assess where you're at and identify the steps you need to take to get into a the best relationship of your life.
Close your eyes, take a breath, and feel into your truth. Is it time for you? Let's find out.
There are no strings attached to this session. If we accept your application, I just ask that you come ready to take radical action if it feels aligned.
You can apply for your call now: empowerlove.us/apply
