Are you an anxious dater?

Are you an anxious dater?

Have you ever had the agonizing experience of obsessing about whether a guy or gal you really like is into you? If so, you know what it feels like to be anxious in love. It’s hard to focus on anything but your phone. Will they call? Will they text? Will they ask you...
The 2-Word Dating Philosophy That Will Save You So Much Heartache

The 2-Word Dating Philosophy That Will Save You So Much Heartache

If I had to boil my entire dating philosophy down to just two words, it would be: “Go slow.” Why? Because when you move too quickly, you miss the most important signals. … Signals that they’re not ready or available for a committed relationship. … Signals that they’re...
How movie romance has us all messed up in the head about dating!

How movie romance has us all messed up in the head about dating!

Picture this: You’re watching a popular romantic comedy.  The main female character, let’s call her Jane, is head-over-heels in love with John, the main male character. John is gorgeous, successful, charismatic and slightly mysterious, and he loves to flirt with...
The most dangerous way to choose a romantic partner

The most dangerous way to choose a romantic partner

When I was younger and less wise, my choices in love were determined by the very things I now advise both women and men against. For example, I would choose men based on how excited I felt in their presence. In fact, the more excited I felt, both when I was with a...
Why Therapy Isn’t the Answer to Your Love Life

Why Therapy Isn’t the Answer to Your Love Life

If you've spent years in therapy — or if you're a therapist yourself — and your love life still doesn't look the way you'd like it to, this message is for you.While I value therapy and believe it's an effective tool (I WAS a licensed MFT), there are 3 main...
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