Have you ever had the agonizing experience of obsessing about whether a guy or gal you really like is into you? If so, you know what it feels like to be anxious in love. It’s hard to focus on anything but your phone. Will they call? Will they text? Will they ask you...
If I had to boil my entire dating philosophy down to just two words, it would be: “Go slow.” Why? Because when you move too quickly, you miss the most important signals. … Signals that they’re not ready or available for a committed relationship. … Signals that they’re...
Picture this: You’re watching a popular romantic comedy. The main female character, let’s call her Jane, is head-over-heels in love with John, the main male character. John is gorgeous, successful, charismatic and slightly mysterious, and he loves to flirt with...
When I was younger and less wise, my choices in love were determined by the very things I now advise both women and men against. For example, I would choose men based on how excited I felt in their presence. In fact, the more excited I felt, both when I was with a...
If you've spent years in therapy — or if you're a therapist yourself — and your love life still doesn't look the way you'd like it to, this message is for you.While I value therapy and believe it's an effective tool (I WAS a licensed MFT), there are 3 main...