Many people believe they can recognize an Unavailable partner. Maybe they’re married, have a girlfriend or boyfriend, or say they won’t commit. It’s obvious, right? But what about all the subtle cues so many of us miss, that show when someone is NOT ready for a mature...
I don’t want to be mean. I don’t want people to not like me. I don’t want to be called a “bitch.” If I’m a bitch, then I might hurt someone’s feelings, or make someone angry, or step on someone’s toes. If I’m a bitch, I might lose the connection, or create an awkward...
The media and our whole culture have it all wrong. Women are taught that our looks are the reason we’re lovable and attractive to men. Men are taught that their accomplishments and wealth are the reason they’re lovable and attractive to women. Everywhere you turn,...
Wanting love isn’t for the faint of heart. It involves sitting through moment after moment of discouraging evidence that seems to promise you love will never arrive. There will be many mornings when you feel achingly lonely, when you deeply long to wake up, open your...
Deep listening is my number one love language that I desire to receive. I know it’s not one of the official love languages, but if I could add one, this would be it. To be seen, heard and felt is the thing that makes my heart open and makes me feel known. And when...
