Until We Heal, We Accept What is Familiar, Not What We Deserve / 018
In this episode, Maya goes deep on why we attract the partners we attract. She shares that we chose these partners based on what is familiar, not what we deserve. She offers a helpful exercise for uncovering your patterns in love and helping you see what it is you...
The myth of the perfectly happy single woman
I have a very successful business coach who makes multiple millions of dollars per year, and just today I heard her say, “At the end of the day, the most important thing in my life is my relationship with my partner. I could do without all the money, but the relationship is what makes it all worthwhile.”
Are you an anxious dater?
Believe it or not, there are women and men out there who don’t experience this level of anxiety because they’ve either grown up with a secure attachment system, OR they’re healed the part of them that subconsciously chooses people who are likely to disappear, change their minds, or act hot and cold.
The 2-Word Dating Philosophy That Will Save You So Much Heartache
All of these things activate your attachment system, which is designed to keep you safe by bonding you to your family and partner.
Once activated, your survival instincts will want you to hang onto that person for dear life — even if you start seeing things about them that don’t work for you.
You then wind up attached to someone who isn’t a safe person to attach to — who will never really be your partner or your family.
How movie romance has us all messed up in the head about dating!
Even if she gave up and chose the other guy — knowing intellectually, that he’s a healthier choice — she’d probably be bored. And sabotage her relationship with him because it doesn’t trigger the part of her brain that believes love feels like danger and excitement.
The most dangerous way to choose a romantic partner
When I was younger and less wise, my choices in love were determined by the very things I now advise both women and men against. The more excited I felt, the more I thought it was a perfect match! Little did I know …
Unavailable Attractions vs. Available Attractions / 017
In this episode, Maya breaks down the energy of an unavailable attraction - what it feels like, what it looks like, and why it occurs- over and over again. She shares about her personal experience with these kinds of attractions and offers questions that can generate...
Why Therapy Isn't the Answer to Your Love Life
If you've spent years in therapy — or if you're a therapist yourself — and your love life still doesn't look the way you'd like it to, this message is for you.
5 Things to Do Now If Your Potential Love is Pulling Away
You might be surprised to know that nearly everyone deals with this to some degree, but the ones who wind up in an amazing relationship are doing something fundamentally different than the ones who get caught in a repeating cycle.
Think there aren't any “Good Ones” left when it comes to online dating? Think again …
At a certain point, you start to look around and wonder: “Where have all the good ones gone?” But it's not that they'e all disappeared, it's that you aren't wired for healthy lasting love, but the good news is, you can change that!
