The other night, on a date, I noticed I felt like an object. I felt alone, and I felt like the person in front of me couldn’t really see me. The night before, on a different date, I noticed that I felt gotten, connected, seen, and like the person genuinely...
How often are you disappointed with what love brings? Do you get swept up in a new romance to the point of feeling ecstatic, only to watch your dreams come tumbling down a few weeks or months later when the relationship goes from hot to luke-warm? Or if you're in a...
Until we heal, we accept what is familiar, instead of actively seeking what we deserve. For so long I accepted what was familiar to me: Inconsistent loveMen with addictionsMen who didn’t chose meMen who didn’t prioritize meMen who couldn’t keep their wordMen who I...
In this episode, I share why listening is so important and 4 skills to utilize for excellent listening. These are: presence, questions, mirroring, and listening with an open heart. These skills are simple but so profound. If you utilize these skills – all of...
Have you ever noticed that your turn-on in the bedroom is directly linked to the level of sensitivity and attunement that you experience from your partner? We all want to be juicy. We want to be aroused. We want to be warmed up. Guess what? If you are not receiving...
Do you really believe that it’s possible for you to find a great partner? So many of the women and men I speak with every day don’t actually believe it’s possible for them to find healthy love. The thing is, none of our limiting beliefs are true, and they...
In this episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style, I Interview Terrie about her experience in the Empower Love program. We explore where she was before the program, what her love life looks like now, and why she says it was one of the best decisions of her life to join....
There are so many simple (and obvious) reasons you might feel justified in staying in contact with your ex … You love themYou care about themYou want to know what they are doing with their lives But the problem is: keeping in contact with an ex —...
Deep down, we all know what’s good for us, but somewhere along the way we’ve learned to doubt our truth. I used to doubt my inner knowing, and I actually almost died once from not listening to my intuition. I was in a car crash in 2005. My face hit the dashboard and I...
In this episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style, Maya interviews Charles and Brandilyn Clay about the way they manifested their love, how they keep their relationship juicy and how this relationship is different then any relationship they had before. They discuss the...